People change. Nobody can deny it.
It's so hard to accept the fact that someone you truly admire and love change to a totally different person. A person that you never expect him/her to become. You may want to deny the truth by not asking but trust me, you will think about it all day and feel uneasy from head to toe. Your head will become heavier. You may feel there's shortage of oxygen for you to breathe in and you might faint in any minute. You may even feel like throwing up. You can't even stand or sit still.
Hiding your disappointment and pretending nothing happens will cause more harm than good. Realising he/she is someone that you love, you may want to open your heart and accept the truth and provide support as well as encouragement. All these need time and rushing it does not help at all.
You can't deny it so try to accept it. I know it's easy to say than do it but you have no choice. You can't determine their destiny. They choose what they want to become and you have no right to oppose. They are living their own lives and you are living yours. Be happy for him/her. That's the only thing you can do.
Hiding your disappointment and pretending nothing happens will cause more harm than good. Realising he/she is someone that you love, you may want to open your heart and accept the truth and provide support as well as encouragement. All these need time and rushing it does not help at all.
You can't deny it so try to accept it. I know it's easy to say than do it but you have no choice. You can't determine their destiny. They choose what they want to become and you have no right to oppose. They are living their own lives and you are living yours. Be happy for him/her. That's the only thing you can do.
Perfect in expressing my feelings right nowSTAY STRONG, VINNIE!! He'll still love you no matter how much he change.
